The Quill and Me
🌸 Forgiveness Begins with Self-Love
"Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins." — 1 Peter 4:8
Forgiveness is not only about releasing others—it is about releasing ourselves. For years, I carried regret over choices I made, wishing I had known then what I know now. But God sees the heart, and His mercy reminds me that self-love is not selfish. It is honoring the life He gave me, setting boundaries, and refusing to be treated less than His beloved child.
When we forgive ourselves, we step into freedom. We stop carrying the weight of yesterday and begin walking in the grace of today.
Forgiveness Continues: Learning to Release Myself
I’ve learned that the hardest person to forgive is myself.
For years, I put other people’s wants and needs before my own. I didn’t know about self-love, boundaries, or the importance of respecting myself. I trusted too easily, gave too freely, and believed love could conquer all. Those choices shaped my life in ways I cannot change or relive.
But here’s the truth: the past is behind me. What matters now is how I live today.
I’ve discovered that self-love is not selfish—it is necessary. It means setting boundaries, refusing to be treated badly, and caring for myself so I can care for others. At 67, I’m still learning this, and it isn’t easy. People who are used to me standing at the back of the line don’t always like seeing me step forward. But I’ve realized: others will treat you the way you allow them to.
So I’m practicing forgiveness—not just toward others, but toward myself. I’m learning to stop blaming myself for being trusting, kind, and hopeful. Those qualities are not weaknesses; they are strengths. And while the world may judge me, I know the Lord sees my heart.
Forgiveness, for me, is about releasing the weight of regret and choosing to walk in mercy, boundaries, and self-respect. It’s about putting up the “Stop Sign” sooner, before I’m pushed into a corner.
I may not have all the answers, but I know this: forgiveness begins with self-love.
🌿 Closing Blessing & Prayer
Blessing:
May you walk in the freedom of forgiveness, carrying no burden of regret, but only the light of God’s mercy. May your boundaries be strong, your heart tender, and your spirit ever hopeful.
Prayer:
Lord, thank You for teaching us that forgiveness begins with love—Your love for us, and our love for ourselves. Help us release the weight of past mistakes and see ourselves as You see us: beloved, redeemed, and whole. Give us courage to set boundaries, wisdom to walk away from harm, and grace to forgive ourselves as You have forgiven us. In Jesus' name, Amen.
Quil Beckham
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