Meaning of Forgiveness

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November 27
Special Devotional
Matthew 18:21–22
"Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?"
Jesus saith unto him, "I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven."
Matthew 18:21–22 (NLT)
"Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times?"
"No!" Jesus replied, "seventy times seven!"
Luke 23:34 (KJV)
"Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do."

The Meaning of Forgiveness and a Prayer

Forgiveness Meaning: 
What the Bible Teaches About Letting Go

Summary

Forgiveness is at the center of the gospel — Jesus commands it, models it, and makes it possible through His sacrifice. Because God has forgiven us so completely, we are called to release grudges, let go of past hurts, and forgive others from the heart. Forgiveness doesn't always require confrontation; it can be just a private act between you and God.

Forgiveness

Forgiveness.

It is all about forgiveness. The Lord commands it. He suffered and died for our sins—every sin of the world. He sent His Holy Spirit to dwell within us so that we might have the Comforter with us at all times. That is what it was all about: the forgiveness of our sins. Without His blood cleansing us, we would never be accepted into the Holy of Holies, the chamber of mercy. For He is holy, and we are not.

There is a place prepared for each of us, waiting in Heaven. All we must do is accept His gift. Yet that is hard for us, as humans, to humble ourselves like little children and receive it freely—without trying to earn it or pay it back. Our way is to resist obligation. But His ways are not our ways. And though we struggle to understand, He knows us. He created us.

If you want to go to Heaven—if you want to live forever in that glorious place with God the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit—you must accept His death, His resurrection, His love, and His forgiveness of your sins. He has already forgiven them, even the sins you have not yet committed. And yes, you will sin tomorrow, because you are human, not holy.

Why Holding a Grudge Blocks Forgiveness

Because He forgave us, we must forgive others. To refuse forgiveness is unacceptable in the eyes of God.

Matthew 18:21–35 tells the parable of the unforgiving servant:
A man, though forgiven of his own great debt, refused mercy to another. Because of his hardness, he was handed over to tormentors until he repaid every last penny.

And verse 35 warns:
"So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses."

The New Living Translation puts it plainly:
"That’s what my heavenly Father will do to you if you refuse to forgive your brothers and sisters in your heart."

So, What Does Forgiveness Mean?

It means letting bygones be bygones—releasing the transgressions committed against you and casting them into the sea to be washed away forever. It means loving one another as Christ loves us. He accepts us with all our faults.

We are not to judge, for only God is qualified to judge. He alone sees the heart and knows intentions—whether good or bad—and He knows the heart of the one who hurt you.

Forgiveness does not require facing the person you are forgiving. You do not have to confront them or announce your forgiveness. Many people do not even realize they have caused hurt, and some would not care if they did. Forgiving is an act of the heart between you and God—a cleansing and a release meant for you alone.

Deuteronomy 32:35 and Romans 12:19 remind us:
"Vengeance is mine, saith the Lord."
He alone is qualified to hand out vengeance, because He alone judges the heart.

How to Forgive When It Feels Impossible

And I gently say… if you cannot forgive by yourself, go to God. Lay it at His feet. Say:

"Lord, I am having a difficult time. I tell myself I have forgiven, but I cannot forget. Whenever I think of this person, I think of what they did. Please remove this animosity, this grudge, this pain. I cannot do it alone. You have forgiven me completely; help me extend that same grace toward this person."

After you have laid it at His feet, leave it there when you rise.

Sometimes forgiveness also means forgiving yourself—for the choices that allowed someone to hurt you, for trusting the wrong people, for mistakes made along the way. But even here, the answer is the same: trust Jesus alone. Go to Him with every decision. Lay it at His feet and leave it there. He will not fail you.

Reflection Question
Is there someone in your life—past or present—that you need to forgive? Perhaps yourself?
God invites you today to lay your burden at His feet and accept His healing grace upon your life.

Prayer

Father, I lay my burden at Your feet.
You see me and know my heart.
Help me to forgive; cleanse me and heal my pain…
Help me to leave this burden here at Your feet and accept the healing You have for me.
When I walk away, I will be free from this.
In faith I pray in Jesus’ name, Amen.

Walking in faith and forgiveness,
~ Quil

Scripture References

Matthew 6:14–15 — "If you forgive others… your heavenly Father will also forgive you." 

Colossians 3:13 — "Forgive as the Lord forgave you." 

Mark 11:25 — "Forgive, if you have anything against anyone."

Luke 6:37 — "Forgive, and you shall be forgiven." 

1 John 1:9 — "He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins."

Psalm 103:12 — "As far as the east is from the west… He has removed our transgressions from us."

Ephesians 4:32 — "Be kind… forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you."

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